Here is a site that I have mixed feelings about—for some of you it could be helpful and for others it could be devastating.

Every woman's dream is to hear what an ex boyfriend or date really thought about her.  Here you go ladies: wotwentwrong.com. Launched in 2012, Wotwentrong.com delivers an email or SMS to your ex with questions about you and your failed exchange, giving your ex an opportunity to tell you what they liked and didn't like about you.

What man in his right mind would do this? Wot Went Wrong entices your ex with a series of ratings, provided by you. Men want approval as well and are primal in their need to know they are Top Dog. They can only view your rate card if they offer you feedback. Tricky eh.

Wot Went Wrong could potentially increase positive, honest, respectful communication between exes while helping you up your dating and relationship IQ by avoiding repeat blunders. Or it could play on your need for approval from men. If you think it will heal you to hear from Mr. No Show then Wot Went Wrong him but if you think it will be damaging then just let it go and move on fast!

www.wotwentwrong.com

Smell is an amazing sense. Good smells make you happier and smelling a fragrance you perceive as pleasant has a profoundly positive effect on your mood. There is nothing better than finding a perfume that really resonates with your true essence. I wore the same perfume for thirty-two years. Ouch. It was so a part of me that people thought that it was my natural scent. Then one day I felt the need to break out. It was daunting finding something that expressed my new-more-adult-self—until I found Jo Malone Nectarine Blossom and Honey Cologne. Jo Malone offers an exquisite selection of scents that makes you feel like you were magically transformed into a flower garden. The scents can be worn solo or layered for truly individual effects. Create your own personal style of smell. Delight in a bath with their White Mint bath oil or pamper your skin with their Lime Basil and Mandarin body cream.

You will feel so delicious about your self. If you sense (no pun intended), people trying to nudge their way next to you on a crowded morning E train, you can either thank or curse Jo Malone. Your choice.

Jo Malone stores can be found throughout the US.

www.jomalone.com

Seduction and Surrender Workshop

Since the dawn of time dance has been a womanly tool of seduction. We will help you learn how to carry yourself with sensual confidence. The first half of the workshop led by teachers of Burlesque Bikini Bootcamp is dedicated to learning to turn on your charm when you want to and about being comfortable in your own skin. After that...The second half of the workshop is turned over to Alex Tschassov, a master ballroom teacher with over 40 years of experience. (You will get the opportunity to dance with many partners) This workshop is great way to feel sexy dancing on your own and with a partner!

Cost $125

Sign up for this fabulous workshop. Monday April 16th 6:30-9:30 pm

151 West 26th Street

www.burlesquebikinibootcamp.com

call 347.248.2533

My first introduction to Microfinance blew my mind. Reading about women changing their economic status with loans of eight dollars seemed incomprehensible. The idea that low-income individuals are capable of lifting themselves out of poverty if given access to financial services, is gaining momentum in the world.

There are many Microfinance sites out there, but I like Kiva the best. www.kiva.org With a clear and navigable site, lending money is easy and deeply satisfying. By loaning as little as twenty dollars you can really change and impact the future of an impoverished person or family. Do you want to lend money to a woman or man? What country? What sector? You can tweak your loan choices and find exactly the one that feels close to your heart. Once you donate, you will get progress updates and as the borrower repays your loan you get money put back in your account. Imagine with the same amount of cash it takes to buy a few frothy cappuccinos from Starbucks, you can do good for the world. You might not have deep pockets like Angelina Jolie, but start with a Benjamin and watch your garden of goodness grow.

www.kiva.org

Finally!  An expo dedicated to divorce.The first major Expo of its kind in the U.S.

The Start Over Smart Expo provides a central gathering place for women and men navigating the divorce process as they seek information, services, and expert guidance from trusted professionals.

Saturday, March 31, 2012 at 9:00 AM thru

Sunday, April 1, 2012 at 6:00 PM (ET)

Metropolitan Pavilion
125 West 18th Street
New York, NY 10011

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